I lost 80 lbs and am on my way to putting it all back on. I feel like a failure Letting myself down is hard, but seeing the disappointment in my husband's eyes when he sees me binging is the worst feeling. I am so sorry I can't be the strong, beautiful woman you think you married.
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March 24, 2009
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I can identify with your feelings. So much of my life have been wasted on what others think and feel to my detriment. I resist the desire to indulge in what others think, need or say. I am learning that it is also important to think of myself, as to how I feel, think or see a situation. Too much of my life have been spent on making sure others are thought of and not enough time spent on how I feel. Sometimes I have found that I had become lost into other persons beings and lives and I was nowhere. Well I want to be and so I need time to think of me for a while. Not to be self serving or selfish but to be thoughtful about my needs and wants. Just a suggestion....feel your own disappointment not his. If you insist on beating yourself up use a sponge bat! Give yourself a break.
Posted by: Joyce | April 25, 2009 at 06:03 PM