I
got used to my husband not complimenting me when I was fat. Now that I
no longer am, he makes a point of telling me when I don't look my best.
I hope he's ready to live alone.
I hope he's ready to live alone.
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My husband has not told me (unless I prompt it) that I looked good (or bad) before or after the surgery. I worked my arse off with WW and with exercise.
What is funny is that he will compliment me to others (when I am not there) so I know he notices. But never to my face.
I think that at some level these guys must be jealous of our improvement and scared that we will leave. But I am not going anywhere.
And I need some level of affirmation. But I hate to ask for it because then I am making it all about me. Stuck between a rock a hard place.
Posted by: Laura | November 03, 2009 at 02:45 PM