There's something in the water. Why can't people support one another after weight loss surgery? What breeds this catty bitchdom?
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Life after weight loss surgery is filled with doubts, concerns and often? Secrets.
I hear that. I don't get it. At. all. Nor do I get how anyone can be unhappy for anohter person who looses weight using any method other than weight loss surgery. Let them have their happy too! No, it may not last. But let them at least enjoy it for as long as it does last, they just have not traveled the road as many miles as we have yet. I sure as hell didn't need anyone bursting my bubble when I lost 30 or 50 or 80 pounds, those multiple times before I realized those 'plans' were making my situations worse!
Posted by: jen | January 03, 2012 at 07:42 PM
People are people. Most often they were catty bitches before WLS. Post-op, they get courage, or they hide behind pseudonyms online, or they just think they are so brilliant that nothing they say, how they say it or what they do could be wrong.
Posted by: Met the online bullies and live with the scars | January 03, 2012 at 07:51 PM
I think there are just a lot more bitchy people in the world than we realize. I always felt I had to be SUPER nice and supportive to make up for the fact that I was (GASP!) fat. Maybe others felt the same. Now that they are skinnier, they have a license to be assholes. Or... they hid their misery behind all the weight. Now that it's gone, they have to fling it at someone.
I just can't believe the negativity. No matter what you say, people will find fault. List what you are eating? "That's too many carbs!" "That's not enough protein!" "I would NEVER eat that!" Oh, just get over it.
Posted by: Just another person | January 09, 2012 at 04:28 PM
I think some people are jealous as they think you got "skinny" the easy way...which is entirely untrue.
Posted by: Lisa | February 10, 2012 at 07:40 AM