weighty secrets | Secrets are things we give to others to keep for us.

weighty secrets - Never assume

"Funny someone gets angry at another wls fellow for complaining about loosing too much weight. Especially when they have walk on our shoes!!!! In my personal case due to many many complications I feel like I have lost too much weight. A year and a half later I barely mantain 115 pounds. It is very difficult for me to eat still, many things upset my "new tool". I try to supplement as much as I can. As a result of my troubles I am super skinny but jobless, homeless and most importantly lost my independence (neurological issues due to short term memory loss). Never ASSUME anything......"

weighty secrets - I lie for you.

The fact that it wasn't worth it... friends ask me if it was, because they want it, and I lie and tell them yes hoping theirs goes better. I lost and kept off 100 pounds but for what. A severe vitamin d deficiency that makes me incredibly sore/tired/weak and causes multiple problems with inflammation (asthma, ears, spine, ribs), severe body image issues, I'm still obese, I lost a huge chunk of my sex drive, my periods/cramps are MUCH worse, I'm anemic, I have hypoglycemia, I feel sick if I don't eat every couple of hours, I lose my hair very easily if I don't do things right. I was happier fat(ter), plain and simple!!! I was more confident and a heck of a lot healthier. I'm only 5 years out, what's going to happen to me in another 5? I'm terrified a "complication" from this is going to kill me in the end

weighty secrets - I don't know what to title this one.

I'm secretly thankful that the complications happened to my friend instead of me.

And frankly, I'm getting a little tired of hearing about it.