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weighty secrets - I was the "fat one."

I was the "fat one" in the family for so long. I grew immune to the comments about my size. Now that I have lost weight and dress sizes the people who use to call me fat are fatter than I am!

They are throwing themselves into crash diets to lose weight quickly.

Should I let them know that I have been there, done that and bought the shirt?

Or should I just sit back and watch the show? The best part is that while it takes them months to lose 20lbs, it will take me weeks.

Thanks for the motivation family! You people are better than any scale or nutritionist could ever be!

weighty secrets - You are a horrible excuse

I have about 15 lbs or less left I want to lose and I can't quit eating all the wrong stuff and have lost the desire to work out. I am feeling desperation and hopelessness. I'm on medications that my docs cannot get correct which puts me on a roller coaster.  To add insult to injury, I do not get along well with my Mother and she and Step-father are coming to visit in a week or two. I hate to be around her, but wish I didn't. I hate the way she looks at my son (her Grandson), it makes me feel so uncomfortable.  She's "always wanted a Grand baby and now he's the light of (her) life". How about you admit the horrible abuse you and step-f'er did to me growing up?  You horrible excuse for a Mother, your no protector, I do not honor you and have zero trust for my child's well being in your presence and cringe at the sound of your voice.  All I can do is pop klonopin and try not to eat all the time they are here. No wonder I was morbidly obese.

weighty secrets - "you'd be so..."

i recently visited family i haven't seen since a month post-op... first thing i hear "i never knew you were so pretty" as if 90 lbs ago i was an ogre....