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weighty secret - Waving

I can now do a lot more positions in sex, however my hubby and I get a lot of laughs out of my newly "waving" skin! LOL!

I understand that losing the weight is one of the biggest gifts I could give myself and my family. Should I feel bad if I am still dreading the possibility of having excess skin?

I'm afraid that he'll despise the saggy mess that is left.

I'm afraid that when I finish losing the weight my husband won't want to be with me anymore... I'm afraid that he'll despise the saggy mess that is left.

the wls truth

skin

i hate my loose skin so much that sometimes i pick at it and make it bleed so that maybe it will get infected and my insurance will cover the skin removal. i can only hope.

Boils

My skin since my weight loss surgery is breaking down worse than before between my legs.  The rub rash I got when I was very obese is nothing compared to the boils I am getting on my thighs in the wrinkled loose skin. It's sickening.  I can't ever wear shorts because it shows.

Hiding.

I want new people to think I've always been the way I am now. I actively hide my past.

Stretch

2-17-07 #2 - Skin

Some days when the floppy, hanging skin is getting me down I wish I were still much heavier because then I did not feel ugly.