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weighty secret - Waving

I can now do a lot more positions in sex, however my hubby and I get a lot of laughs out of my newly "waving" skin! LOL!

Weighty Secret: Baby you can drive my car.

Can anyone tell me if your sex drive increases after surgery? I believe that mine has diminished because I am so self conscience. Married just two years, my husband is older than me and I don't know if it is him or me? I just hope it is me and it will improve after surgery? Anybody else experience this?

i have all kinds of men interested in me and i have been sleeping around and i love it!

i dont want to be with my husband anymore. i got with him when i was 16. because of my weight i didnt think anyone else would ever want me so i settled for him. now that im thin and smoking hot i have all kinds of men interested in me and i have been sleeping around and i love it!

I dream of cheating on my husband.

I dream of cheating on my husband. Not because I don't love him just because I am tired of working so hard to enjoy it. He doesn't get it and I miss getting hot just by feeling someones breathe on my skin.

fucktard

My husband had WLS two months after I did. He was compliant for the first 6 months. He is now one year out and hasn't lost one pound in the last 6 months.

He claims that because he is "working out" that he can consume more calories. He will not track his calories so he has no fucking clue how much he is eating. My guess is that it's somewhere between 3000-3500. He still needs to lose another 40 pounds but doesn't give a shit.

I'm still trying to get the last 20 pounds off (who the fuck isn't?) and don't need to watch him consume huge amounts of whatever the fuck he feels like shoveling into his face.

I'm not going to take care of you, Fucktard, when you regain your weight along with all of your co morbidities. You've fucked this surgery thing up by losing 6 months of your weight loss window and you will be a very lonely man.

now i'm cutting

I have started cutting now that I am not able to deal with life via food.

My therapist suggested putting a rubber band around my wrist and snapping it really hard as a socially acceptable alternative. That is just stupid. How can it be socially acceptable to walk around with huge bruises on your arms? I stuck with cutting and lying about it to the therapist.

My husband notices and has asked me to stop, and I honestly don't know how. How can I burden him with the fact that 90% of the time I cut after we have argued? Why is my head so fucked?