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From POSTSECRET this week.

The reality of my life is so sad and the pain of my past is at the doorsteps.

I've been very unhappy for many years. I have settled for most of those years. Many spent either under the influence of drugs or alcohol or both just to hold onto myself, or what I thought I was.

Now after 6 years of having my weight loss surgery, I feel that I really don't like or love my husband of 35 years. I feel to get in the car and just run away like a child.

I know I won't do that, but the fantasy is really giving me a thrill. I guess I just miss the thrill of living a wild life. The reality of my life is so sad and the pain of my past is at the doorsteps. I must address this hard fact.....To leave or to stay? If I stay, many changes must be made both mine and his.

Y R We Here?

A lot of people told me that having weight loss surgery would be a cure for my fat disease and my fat life. They were wrong. This blog will give you a peek into the real life of WLS patients and those around them.