weighty secrets | Secrets are things we give to others to keep for us.

weighty secrets - You may also trade antibiotics.

A  good friend also had WLS and has turned into a slut. I have been married for 15+ years. Wish I could trade places with her for just one night.

weighty secrets - that's why lying gives you ulcers.

I lie and tell people that I'm happy being thin and the surgery was totally worth it, it's not.

I find myself a statistic.. losing my marriage, never handled my food issues and now I"m chronically ill form complications.

I don't understand how anyone would do this to their body after reading how horrible is really is for you physically, emotionally and mentally.

weighty secrets - The itch you can indeed, scratch.

If I had the "itch" for sex the husband has always been there for the scratch, pre-op and post-op. He has always had more itches than I. He is good looking and a decent lover. But since menopause hit, 3 months before RNY WLS 2.5 years ago, my sex drive has plummeted down to nothing. I have taken hormones. I have used estrogen cream. I have used various KY and KY type products. Nothing. Sex is painful and my GYN RN told me I am "atrophied" and dried up down there.

That is what pisses me off about any given news programs or sporting event on TV. The fucking commercials for Viagra, etc. I don't want it. I can lube up for it, but I DON'T WANT IT! I didn't get skinny for sex.