My DH has not touched me in the 15 months since my surgery. We have not had sex since 2005. You would think that he would be interested since I am smaller, but he is not. He does not even try. He does not compliment me directly on how good I look or how well I am doing.
I am tired of riding this wave of excitement by myself. I don't know if he hates the fact that we pay a loan payment every month or whether he just does not find me attractive now.
Part of me is saddened by this and part of me wants a divorce. What we had is not there anymore. Honestly, it was not there before I started losing the weight.
Stuck in limbo land and quite jealous of happy, in-love couples.
I had an affair before my surgery - I was single and VERY overweight. The affair ended three years ago. I had WLS two years ago - met and married another man a year ago. I have never gotten over the man from the first affair - we started talking again in December and I realized that I am still in love with my affair man...How can I love two men at the same time? Is it possible? I find myself in an affair and now I am the married one...
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